12.08.2013

The Christmas tree- a family tradition


 

 
 At Christmas time the crisp clean mountain air beckons me to the forest to make Christmas memories.  The great hunt for the perfect Christmas tree alludes me.  For our family it is the "kick off"  of the holiday season.  Smiles and giggles decorate our freshly cut evergreen tree as it becomes the focal point for our Christmas. 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 
At the heart of our holiday traditions, is the adventure of journeying into the woods as a family to cut down our very own Christmas tree.  The tradition started years ago for me.  As a child, my family also marked the beginning of our holiday with such an outing.  My mother loved the smell of Juniper trees. 
 
 

Now Junipers are not the most shapely trees and ours were of course no different.  They are more what you called bushes than trees.  But just the same it  was more about the memory than the tree.  My father being a rather anal man.. and I say that with all the  love in my heart... would never schedule in the event of getting the tree but would simply announce that he was going and take some of we seven out in all kinds of circumstances to accomplish this task.  We went in blizzards, or at nightfall, and when we didn't have a truck we took our old station wagon.  We always seemed to head out in pairs hoping to find the "perfect"  Christmas tree.  The funny thing was that we would wander for a good hour or more and then always seem to agree upon one that was only a short distance from our vehicle.

Now years later, I realize that there is no such thing as a perfect Christmas tree nor a perfect memory.  In fact, the most memorable tree outings  always seem to have some sort of strange and wonderful circumstances involved.

Strange and wonderful do not seem to be a likely pair, but for the Weaver family they were  most common.  On the brink of a holiday season in my late teens, my younger sister Heather and I had received the task of cutting a tree with our then bachelor brother, Cleve.  I was excited for this adventure in that we would be taking to the high mountain in search of a Blue Spruce.  My mother left the days of Junipers behind for an Artificial tree and we were to cut the tree which would be showcased in the window of our little red brick home on 2nd East. 

The snow was deep as we drove the beautiful mountain road near our home town.  Engulfed by the beauty, I was unaware of the road conditions nor the look of worry on my brother's face.  My younger sister seemed to be bowing her head in endless prayer.  I however, was oblivious until his truck came to a halt as it slipped off the road into a massive snow bank.  We were stuck.  I still was not worried.  I was with my older brother and he had taken care of me my whole life.  I knew that this situation was no different.  What I didn't know was that the road we were on was closed and showed signs that a snow plow had been on this road no to long ago.  To make matters worse.. my brother neglected to put a shovel in the back of his truck.

He attempted to dig his way out using the massive frame of his body and my sister just kept a praying.  As the moments passed, my brother's face began to show worry and my little sis became even more silent.  I however, was optimistic and felt an enormous sense of protection.

Thankfully, for some unknown "reason"  the snowplow driver felt he needed to pass our way just one more time.  We didn't walk a way with a tree that night, but I walked a way with an impression that has never left me.   Jesus Christ,  like my earthly older brother is always there for me as my protector, friend, and comforter.  As I called upon my Heavenly Father as my sister did on that snow drift day, my prayers will be heard as I put my faith in Jesus Christ.

Rigby and I have been cutting trees together for 18 years.  And much like my childhood days each has a great memory to savor.  This year we headed up to Yankee Reservoir. My brother Michael and his two children joined us for this adventure.  We were happy that snow was present as it had not fallen in great abundance, yet.  Outfitted in warm snow gear, we had stopped at a few spots but were unimpressed with our pickings and found that the low level of snow beckoned many tree hunters.  Rigby took us to one last spot.  The cousins giggled, threw snow balls, made angels, and enjoyed this adventure.  I again was overcome by the beauty.  

Rigby soon disappeared and my brother and I navigated the mountain with our brood of 7.    We were determined to find "the tree."  We even had a few picked out for Rigby's inspection. Unfortunately, he had the saw.   That is when I heard the whistle- his whistle.  So leaving the kids with my brother,
 

 

 


I headed up the mountain in the now very deep snow. My oxygen intake was challenged as I climbed higher and faster.  I found him and to my non surprise he had already cut two trees...I  love to tease him that he only wanted me to drag one down off the mountain.

On the way home, I missed being with my dad in our old blue Ford with Christmas music crackling on the misfit radio.  He always wore the same hat.  For old time sake, and to please me Rigby turned the volume up just a little and gave me a wink!

Happy Holidays!  We at barnwood and tulips hoped you enjoyed our family gallery of Christmas trees!



12.06.2013

November- according to the iphone

Celebrating the end of football season!

Happy Monday!

One of our favorite stories... total boy!

Way to go Madsen!

A great way to start the day!

My favorite fireman!

Fall foliage and my favorites
Madsen at AAU tourney

I just love Southern Utah sunsets!

Maleck and Van find one big carrot!

Madsen has a growth removed from his mouth

Sesame Street Live with Maleck

Maleck falls in love with Elmo!

Marcus and Maleck dig the cotton candy!

Madsen plays baseball

Stockton is ready for church

I love where I live!

6 AM- "Mommy what is Santa's phone number?"

Emma gave me a ring!

Our guitarist!

Maleck's neighborhood buddies!

 

Daddy decides to chop down our tree!
She won't always wear footie pj's

The first snowfall

 

Thanksgiving 2013 with the Weaver family!

Tree cutting with brother Mike, Kate, and Solomon!

Cousins!

Best memories!


 

Kylee gets baptized.

Christmas "window shopping"

Dinner at the Lion House


Wish you were with us PA PA Jake!

Emma- one of my favorite things!

So happy!

Meet your mommy under the mistletoe!
 
 
So there is a deep satisfaction as a mother to record the smiles and memories made as a family.  I am filled with joy as I recount our amazing November.  I am so grateful that years ago after I completed my first year of teaching  8th grade that Rigby and I made the choice for me to stay home.  Being a mother is such a joy!  Rigby and I count our blessings daily.... Thanks for stopping by to check out our November!

12.03.2013

Barnwood and Tulips Christmas Books---a family tradition!

As a mother of five young children, I think I enjoy Christmas as much as they do. I am also married to a right jolly young elf. In fact this year he is trying to see how many hours he can wear his elf hat collectively throughout the holiday. As of yesterday, day two, he had worn his hat nearly 22 hours- I told you he was a jolly elf. Christmas is also a great time for traditions and we have our fair share. But one of my favorites is our Christmas book.
Each year, I buy a Christmas book for our children at the beginning of the season. My husband or I make an inscription on the inside of the book making sure to include the year. Our oldest is now fifteen so our library has grown over the years. Our hope is that is one day as our children marry and have children of their own that we can divide the library amongst the five of them and then they can continue the tradition with their own families. I have to admit after the hustle and bustle of the season, there is nothing better than curling up with a beautiful Christmas story and one or more of our fabulous five.
I have included below a list of some our favorite Christmas books, a brief summary of the books, and what I enjoyed most about the specific book. Hopefully, you too, can take a little time out from the holiday craze and cuddle up with the little or big one in your life.

The Christmas Prayer writtenby Rian Anderson.  This is the book I have chosen for this year.  I can't wait to give it to the kids tomorrow before bedtime... Shh,  don't tell!

The Three Gifts written by Patricia Cook Orr, illustrated by Wilson Ong
”The Three Gifts” is our 2010 book. Although it is longer than most of our Christmas books, this book is a page turner. Orr follows the history of the three gifts brought to the new born baby Jesus and speculates as to what happens to each of them. This book will warm your heart and remind you of the true meaning of Christmas.

I Believe in Santa Claus
written by Diane G. Adamson, illustrated by M. Chad Randall
A short read, wonderfully illustrated- this is the book I give my children to read when they ask me if I believe in Santa Claus. It relates the religious symbolism of Christmas to the commercialized ones. If you are not a believer in Santa, you will be when you close the pages of this book.

Christmas Oranges
retold by Linda Bethers
Illustrated by Ben Sowards
Bethers does a wonderful job as she recreates this traditional tale. Sowards illustrations are masterfully created and compliment Bethers’ text. This story captures the simplicity of Christmas and leaves you longing to give away your own Christmas orange.
Snowmen at Night
written by Caralyn Buehner, illustrated by Mark Buehner
This husband wife Utah duo does a marvelous job with this FUN Christmas tale. Surely all of us have wondered what snowmen do at night. My two year old simply loves this book. In fact, it has ignited a snowman craze in our home.


I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day
written by Lloyd and Karmell Newell and illustrated by Dan Burr
I absolutely adore this story and my children have enjoyed the accompanying DVD. The text of this book explores the life of Henry Longfellow and the creation of his beautifully written song, “I heard the Bells on Christmas Day.” The Newells also describe how the poem became a song. Furthermore, it provides a quick history and cultural lesson of the Civil War era. The illustrations are magnificent and draw the reader into the Longfellow home and life. This book is a must have…

A Christmas Bell for Anya
written by Chris and Evie Steward, illustrated by Ben Sowards
The reader is immediately drawn into the 1917 world of Siberia in a small village. Its short text depicts the beautiful tradition of the Christmas bell and the love of a father for his daughter, Anya. You will need a kleenex!


The Miracle of the Wooden Shoes
written by Deborah Pace Rowley, illustrated by Dan burr
This story portrays the German tradition of the wooden Shoes as one boy named Walter comes to find his greatest treasure, his faith. This story will leave you wanting to add this German tradition to your holiday season.


The Christmas Miracle of Jonathan Toomey
written by Susan Wojciechowksi, illustrated by P.J. Lynch
This is our very first book in our Christmas collection. We read it to our children every Christmas morning before the opening of gifts. Mr. Gloomy, Jonathan Toomey, overcomes his past heartaches and regrets as he carves a nativity set for a widow and her son. As Jonathan carves the nativity, his heart is opened and healed as he comes to feel the love of Jesus Christ. Every child big or small should hear this story– this miracle.
 


 
 Happy Reading!
 

12.01.2013

Currenty Craving- memories and the spirit of Christmas

Currently Craving - memories and the spirit of Christmas!  We enjoyed the best Thanksgiving break (I will update soon).  Along our memory making mission I of course found a few cravings.... mostly memories, small moments... that stirred my senses.  Here are a pics of a few!

 
 Craving No #1- The lights at temple square drew throngs of families...stirring all of my senses!
Craving #2- dinner at the Lion's House- 

Craving #3-  The Brigham Young Home-- Doesn't this House just SING of Christmas!

    Happy Holidays.... love all of us at Barnwood and Tulips!  Visiting temple square was the perfect way to show our gratitude for the Savior and usher in the holiday season!